Break The Prison To Taste The Real Happiness

One day i was listening to a spiritual guru on T.V. and he was saying that people love to be in pain like they might be  addicted to it and enjoy it. At that moment , i did not understand completely what he was trying to convey but later on i realized that yes!!! He was so right because somehow i have seen many people including myself that we somehow created a sheet around ourselves in which we kept ourselves as victim and we really enjoy having sympathy from others. Ohhhh ," what a poor chap?" " its really sad to see this happened to you". "we are with you". By hearing all this ,we feel some kind of importance or worth of our petty self and starting liking that  misery around us and trapped in that misery. Although, we simultaneously repeating  that  we really need happiness but deep down inside  we are enjoying  that sympathy. So we have to break this prison of illusion created by our own ego and come out of it to feel the real taste of  happiness which has been waiting for us at the other side of our own selfcreated  misery. So drink that sorrow and  spit it away to enjoy the real taste of happiness.